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Derek Barr

1962 - 2016

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Carey Roeske posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2019

To Derek's Family-my husband and I only learned of Derek's passing this weekend when we went to Denny's to see if he was still there. The manager was heartbroken to speak of Derek's passing. My husband and I both have extremely fond memories of Derek from our youth. Derek was my first "boyfriend" starting in grade two during a movie we were watching in class at St. George's. I was the new girl to the school and something seemed off during the movie. I found out during recess that day that Derek wanted to be my "boyfriend" and he gave me a quarter and some candy. We had lots of fun from about grade two to four - you may have heard the stories of the girl that baked cakes with her Easy Bake Oven for Derek - that was me. Flash forward many years and when my husband and I went to a Denny's and met Derek there, well, it was then that I learned that my husband played hockey with Derek when they were young and it would have been at the same time that Derek and I were "dating" and thereafter for a few years. How worlds come together! We were so sorry to hear of Derek's passing, we will miss him. He always had a smile for us! Our most sincere condolences to his family and friends. Love Carey and Steve

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Wednesday, June 14, 2017

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Donna Gardner posted a condolence

Friday, April 1, 2016

Roxanne and family, I only learned of the passing of your brother and loving husband, Derek. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Cherish your memories and time spent with Derek. God Bless.

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Shawn O'Meara posted a condolence

Monday, March 21, 2016

My wife Heather and I are so very sorry to hear of Derek's passing. We both went to school with him and I have talked with him over the years at Denny's. He always had a smile and was one of a kind! Shawn & Heather O'Meara

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Larraine Gorman donated to CANADIAN CANCER SOCIETY - SOCIÉTÉ CANADIENNE DU CANCER

Sunday, March 20, 2016

In memory of Derek Barr, a wonderful man, a brilliant actor, and a cherished friend.

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Paul Petrocco posted a condolence

Saturday, March 19, 2016

I have been shocked by Derek Barr's passing. Over the past couple of days I tried to find some words for my friend that would be appropriate. I have heard all of the stories and kind words from all those who loved him. They are all what I would have shared and more, he was one great guy with a huge heart. He used to tell me of a time when he was so excited to play on the first line with Larouche Park in senior hockey.The coach gave him a chance to play ahead of a guy twice his size and half of the heart Derek played with.There was not a chance he was coming off of that line due to his not playing hard and he stayed there. He gave everything he had in everything he did, and he has left me with an inspiration to emulate that. He loved Darlene and he once told me she saved his life, I am happy she did. Derek you can play on my wing anytime buddy, I love you, and I wish I could have one more round with you. You're the best!

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Brian Shields posted a symbolic gesture

Friday, March 18, 2016

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For Darlene and all of Derek's family my heartfelt condolences during this very sad time! Fisher Park High School was where I first met Derek and he was the kind or person that always left a good impression on people from the start. Luckily our friendship continued over the years even when we didn't see one another for long periods of time. We golfed a few times over the years which was a passion for both of us, and then he ended up getting me a job working with him at Noah's. Like all of us I will miss his "joie de vivre" and calling me "Kid" all the time. Have a safe journey my friend!!

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Brenda and Gord Cavanagh posted a condolence

Friday, March 18, 2016

Dear Roxanne and Family, Please accept our sincere condolences for the loss of your brother...sadder still in view of how young he was. Our warmest thoughts are with you.

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Mike Landon posted a condolence

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Roxanne & Family I am so sorry to hear of your brothers passing, until I had seen this notice I did not realize that Derek was your brother, There was several mornings where I would be at Denny's early prior to doing a flooring job in the city, your brother always looked after me. He was always in a great mood and would often have conversation with me if it was not too busy. I will miss those times that started off my day.

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Bill O'Connell posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 16, 2016

How very shocked I was to hear of Derek's passing. Derek brightened all my visits to Dennys for almost 12 years I suppose. I always asked for him to serve me as we just clicked from day one. He remembered what I liked & always made sure it was just right - perfect! After about 4 years, somehow his acting came up. I saw him perform in 3 or 4 plays & he always invited me backstage. I enjoyed "knowing" an actor. I last saw Derek when he stayed late at Dennys to serve at my 70th B-day party. I told my wife I'd like my party there, and she asked him if he would work. I always took friends to meet my favorite server AND FRIEND, Derek. He told me he would like to come to Florida & play golf someday - I had hopes he & Darlene would make it. He was always telling me the count down to his wedding, & I did get to meet his lovely bride once. I know I am but one of the many he made happy & who will miss him greatly. He was taken from us far too soon. Paula & Bill O'Connell

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Karen and Ron Townley posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Dear Roxanne and family, Please accept our condolences in regards to the recent passing of your brother. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Sincerely, Ron, Karen and Nigel

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Shawn walby posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Please accept my condolences on Derek,s passing, Derek was a great guy and lots of fun to be around, I grew up with Derek going to school and he will be missed . RIP my friend. Shawn

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Gary Mousseau posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 16, 2016

You will be missed by every one.

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Jane Morris & Bob Hicks donated to CANADIAN CANCER SOCIETY - SOCIÉTÉ CANADIENNE DU CANCER

Wednesday, March 16, 2016

In memory of a lovely man who will be greatly missed.

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Liz Wall posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Roxanne and family I am very sorry for the loss of your brother. Cherish his memories!

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Juliette posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. He was a great guy and always had a smile on his face.....he will certainly be missed.

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SUSAN WILSON lit a candle

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

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YOU WILL BE SADLY MISSED, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS VERY SAD TIME

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WENDY WHITMAN posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Dear Roxanne and all family members. Bernie and I were saddened to hear off the loss of Derek. May you all share the good memories to help with this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. xoxo Love Bernie & Wendy.

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Tony and Lea Bond posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

We were very saddened to learn about Derek's sudden passing. Our hearts and prayers are with his family and friends during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the memories you have shared together. God Bless, Tony and Lea Bond xo

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Brenda Ladouceur/Brian Dunmall lit a candle

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

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Brenda & Family so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time..♡♥♡

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Jacquie Blair posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Darlene and family, I am so saddened by the loss of Derek. He was such a special person who seemed to take joy in everything around him. I first got to know Derek while running Prop's for Cuckoo's Nest at Kanata Theatre when I had to come up with a mouth guard for his 'electric shock' scene! Since then we have worked on numerous plays together. There was never a dull moment having Derek in a production! He was a pleasure to have around and such a talented person....he could even curl! I will miss his resounding voice and sweet greetings. My thoughts are with you and your family. Jacquie

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Tammy Kedrosky-Beaudoin posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Dear Roxanne, Just a note to let you know I'm thinking of you. Sending you huge hugs and strength. Sincerely, Tammy

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Michele Baddoo posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

So saddened and shocked to hear of Derek's death. I will remember him for his smile and laughter and the joy he brought to any gathering. I first met him as McMurphy in Cuckoo's Nest playing along side Fred Cattroll as Chief. He knew all his lines and effortlessly and flawlessly got him back on track again if Fred forgot any. They had a secret signal between them when Fred forgot a line. He always had a warm greeting with a hug, a smile and "How are you sweetie". I will, as will many others, miss him terribly. Michèle Baddoo

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Robin Hopkins posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

My thoughts are with the family of Derek. I went into Deneys every 2 -3 months with friends prior to a morning meeting. Derek would see us from a distance and always came over with a joke and a few laughs. We never had to actually place our order. .... he knew exactly what we wanted without fail. He didn't work at Denys. ...... he was Denys..... you will be missed my friend, but never forgotten

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Diane Wood (and Family) posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

So very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know we are thinking of you and sending our thoughts and prayers.

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Karen Buffone lit a candle

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

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My prayers and condolences to your family.

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Dorothy Shaw posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

I am in Spain until March 21st so regretfully will not be able to attend the visitation or service. I considered Derek a special friend due to my involvement at Kanata Theatre in Cuckoo's Nest and Bonspiel. He was a talented and caring person, and my daughter and son-in-law remember him from when he served them grits at Denny's when they were visiting from Windsor. They send their condolences, along with mine and my husband Derek's, for a life ended all too soon.

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Carol Delahunty posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

I just heard the sad news about Derek and wanted you to know how truly sorry I am. He was one of the nicest people and I know that he was a great husband and brother too. I will keep you all in my thoughts and pray that you will find the strength and courage to get through this difficult time.

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Nancy & Brian McCullough posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Brian and I are deeply saddened at the sudden death of Derek. He was a long time friend of Brian's and a favorite familiar face at Denny's. Rest in Peace.

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Ken Evraire posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

My family and I extend our sincerest condolences to Derek's family. We always enjoyed his energy when we enjoyed family day lunches at Denny's. Funny how people impact others lives. He will be missed. Ken Evraire & Family

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Steve Foget lit a candle

Monday, March 14, 2016

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I light this candle in Derek's honour and memory ...... I am adding something I posted on Facebook. It sums up Derek " Dexter" very well. We were in the same year at Fisher Park High School - Class of 1980 Derek "Dexter" Barr was an absolute beauty. There was not a mean bone in his body. He was everybody's buddy. Always polite, genuine and a true caring individual. As they say, only the good die young. Derek was real. Derek was good. Derek was real good at everything he did. Derek will be missed by many. For Fisher High we do or die ....... ‪#‎GodSpeed‬ ‪#‎RIPDerekBarr‬ ‪#‎FuckCancer My deepest condolences to Darlene and the rest of the family ...... God Bless you all.

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Steve "Buzzy"Feher lit a candle

Monday, March 14, 2016

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I'll Miss You Buddy R.I.P.

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Denise Brooks posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

Darlene and Family So very sorry to hear about your beloved Derek he was one of the good guys great man,weird i was just thinking about him the other day and the plays (kanata little theater) he was in with my daughter Jennifer Brooks, he will be missed and was a great friend to many at the old stoppin grounds Puzzles.Denise Brooks (Puzzles Owner)

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Sharon Swift posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

My condolences to Derek's family. He was always full of life and loved everyone. He will be missed.

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Val Bogan posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

Sending heartfelt condolences to all. Derek was a dear friend to me and in fact all of us at the Ottawa Little Theatre. I will miss his laughter, his hugs and the beautiful twinkle in his eye when he spoke of his family. We shared many great stage adventures and I will miss him so much. Godspeed Derek. Keep that stage hopping in heaven, we'll see you there ❤️❤️❤️

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Kim Azulay posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

My deepest condolences. We met Derek as customers at Dennys. It was right beside the Merivale Imaging centre, where my partner had to have numerous scans and tests. We would go over to Dennys after and a couple of times we had him as a waiter. What an entertainer.....he was so awesome, made us want to go there just to get his service. I watched him with the other customers, because I work for a bank and customer service is so important. I always thought, wow, this guy could train bankers in good customer service. I send my condolences to his family and friends. He was a very impressive human being......

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Monica and Mike Moszczynski lit a candle

Monday, March 14, 2016

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You will always be remembered. May you Rest in Peace Derek.

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Denise Vachon posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

Gone too soon .. my deepest sympathies to you Darlene and your loved ones.

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Ian Quick posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

I had the pleasure of meeting and working with Derek on the set of "Friends with Benefits" at the Kanata Little Theatre. He helped make it a great experience for me and everyone on set. I'm sorry your last curtain call came too soon. You will be missed.

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Marko Pilic posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

Derek, Your smile and support will be greatly missed at our little theatre. I will never forget your words of encouragement as I was preparing to head out onto the stage. You were always ready to lift anyone's spirits in need. I shall always cherish the laughter we shared. Your dear Friend, Marko

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Elise & Doug Payne posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

You will be missed. You were always so cheery and pleasant and we are definitely better off for having known you. Rest in peace, my friend.

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karen crawford posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

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Cydney Allen posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

Dear Derek, where do i begin?...I hope you know how many people's hearts you have touched and how many lives you have changed, just by being you. You were taken way too soon from us and you will be so deeply missed, I know God had a special job for you but, i can't help thinking this isn't fair. You are now Darlene's special angel and will be watching out for Darlene from where you are and i will be looking after her from where i am...Don't worry Derek, I got this!

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Patrick Kay lit a candle

Monday, March 14, 2016

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My thoughts and prayers are with you Darlene and your family

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Monday, March 14, 2016

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Cindy Clavette posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

My deepest sympathies go out to the family. He will always be remembered

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Jazzlyn Nickel posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

Derek "big poppa" was a great friend to everyone he came in contact with. I had the pleasure of getting to know him on a personal level throughout my time working at Dennys. Every morning he came in relieving me of the painful night shift we would have a coffee, read the paper and wish each other well. He will be remembered and greatly missed. I send my prayers and condolences to his family & friends. Rest in peace big poppa xo

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Valerie Leonard posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

My deepest sympathy to all of you at this very difficult time.

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Debbie Pierce posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2016

Dear Roxanne and Family, I am saddened to hear about your brother, Derek. Thinking of you and your family during this very difficult time. Love Deb Pierce

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